read an article about obama giving speech in one of the high school of USA
he said that dont reveal too much about yourself in facebook
as there's many companies will check on the applicants before they decide whether to hire them or not
so some of your past or some inappropriate behaviours will decrease your chances of getting a job
below that article there's some pros and cons about revealling yourself in the internet
there's one saying there's a women posted her shoutout in facebook saying that she's going out
then some thieves broke into her house... so shuey..

saw some tv programmes saying girls have to be secretive
dont ever open up yourself to your beloved half
macam itu baru he can love you more
and will forever be attracted to you

hmm.. is being secretive the best way to survive in this society?
it's like very tiring to keep everything in the dark
it's like compressing yourself to your very own box
i think the society is getting sickening because of this
not to do this not to do that...
it wont help by closing up every single pathway

everyone thinks that the sweetest moment of a relationship
is when he comes after you, you go after him
when everything is uncertain
but, for me, you can only see their "si lang kuan"
after you all get to know each other isnt it?
you wont show your friends all your bad behaviours
you might be a mr nice guy to all of your friends
but only your closest family and other half will see through you
knowing all your si lang kuan
family have to accept what you are
but your other half, how long can they stand you?
they are not your garbage bin
have to accept everything you threw
picking up every poops of you
so keep all your si lang kuan to yourself la..
be mysterious.. be secretive.. only about your si lang kuan ar..

i think i'm out of topic already
hahaha... just a thought..
hmm hmm.. just behave la..
so that you wont be scared of any ugly past of yours
or any bad behaviours.. things can be controlled and be changed..
we were born like a piece of blank paper arent we?
nothing to be ashamed.